THE MAN THAT LOVES YOU
People has so many definitions of love due to individual understanding and the point through. which they view the word love. This is one of the reasons why some easily fall in love while some, take their time to really evaluate the personality of the man in question. Meeting a man and within few days or weeks, draws a conclusion that he truly loves you, sometimes end in great disappointment. Studying a man sometimes can be more than a 4 to 5 year course in a university. In this write-up, the man we are talking about is the one that is serious and committed in a relationship that will end in marriage.
So, if you are into a relationship that is sure to end up in marriage, we will like you to do an assessment and know if the following questions has perfect answers in your relationship.
- Is he really ready and willing to marry you?
- Does he listen to you?
- Is he available?
He has to show you his readiness and willingness to settle down with you. Some low thinking ladies thinks because he spends money on you and gets crazy or excited about is enough sign........ NO! He spends because the money is there, he gets crazy or excited because he gets free sex from you. The man who loves you will let you know his plans for your future and how his mind is been made up concerning you.
A man who loves you should listen to you as this is the major means of knowing how you feel. He should be attentive whenever you are talking to him even if he is not going to apply or do exactly as you said. A man who listens to you values your words and advice but you should try not to be authoritative especially when your suggestions are needed to solve problems. Him, listening to you shows you are not there only to be seen but to be heard. Sometimes, the cause of him not listening to you may be due to your level of reasoning or lack of valuable contributions. A man who loves and cares about you should be a listening man.
A man is available when he is not married, not attached to another lady, not engaged, not in a relationship with a lady or has a wife outside his country and not too separated by long distance. He should be available and desire to get to you at all cost. For those who think they 've found true love in a married man, you are rather wasting your time and cultivating problems because he has no future with you but just there because he has one or two crisis between him and his wife which will not last. Look for a man whose availability for you will have no limit. He should not be too separated by a very long distance because when building your relationship, you need to see your man's reaction towards you and also feel his emotions which cannot fully be achieved through mails, texts and calls. Distance they say; separates people emotionally, mentally and physically.